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The reason people often “wallow in their misery” is because all of the good things that will help them have been tainted by neglect and abuse.
Going outside regularly is good for you. Being Forced to go outside when you don’t want to and being treated like you’re stupid for not being super into nature is going to make you not believe that.
Exercise is good for you. Being told all of your feelings are “in your head” and exercise will get rid of any mental issue you have is going to make you not believe that.
Laying off technology is good for you. Being told by a parent that they wish they could break every piece of technology you own is going to make you not believe that.
You can’t be mad at people who were force-fed poison and wonder why they aren’t “trying to do better”
There are a million different personal experiences and circumstances that impact the decisions we make. Safety should always be the number one prior
But there is no queer Indian identity without queer Indians living in India
There is no queer progress in India without queer Indians fighting for it
Update from the WGA on negotiations
I know SEVERAL afab nonbinary people who, as soon as they came out as nonbinary - immediately began dressing in ridiculous hyper-femme outfits they never would have worn before. A lot of people see this and say shit like “Theyfab” or say they are only nonbinary for attention. After all, look how femme they are.
But to me, this makes perfect sense. When you are forced into the category of “woman” against your will, femininity is a chore. It’s a job that you have. As soon as you say no, I’m not a woman, suddenly femininity isn’t your job anymore. It’s not a requirement. It’s just a fun hobby you can get into. Or a little treat sometimes.
why do we bother with I hate my partner jokes when your boss is right there
I love my wife. my boss though? that ball and chain??
do you understand my vision
Oh this is too fun
Bestie, your brain, your VISION, ahead of your time
pirates of the caribbean really introduced an eldritch octopus man who kills indiscriminately and torments the dead as their poster villain and then you watch the movies and it’s like, “oh no, actually the worst villain in this series is a small white british man who functions as the herald of capitalism” and that was very very brave of them
attention all ex-redditors responding to this with “well ackshually he was an agent of the government so it couldn’t have been capitalism–” read this davy jones/will turner 90k tentacle erotica fic and then maybe it will open your mind.
SOLIDARITY WORKS!!!
i dont mind when people are annoying online bc i remember back when i was 14 and so annoying online and its fun to be young and not know how to act we’ve all been there. Checks bio. oh theyre older than me